In homes
- A vouched member will host. Guests may bring a dish or contribute during the week, with every expectation explained before anyone accepts.
- Guests will be seated before candle lighting. A table may be a Friday night dinner, Shabbat lunch, or a Thursday night gathering when that better fits the group.
- The planned matching includes walkable options for people who do not drive on Shabbat.
- Every invitation will state the host's own kashrut declaration, such as a certified kitchen, kosher style, or vegetarian, so guests can decide whether it fits.
- The host will be the baal habayit. Responsibility for the evening will sit with the host and guests together.
Nothing is paid, carried, or signed on Shabbat. Ever.
- Before candle lighting
- Host led
- Walkable
- Kosher declared